What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Although most touch will happen through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever understand how it will turn out. It is not the method or the wanted series of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, love always has a suitable response. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Adequate is that the giver is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "great", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in a great development.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Every person (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also needed (check out the article on guarding limits. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is an appropriate consumption, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders ahead of time: about mental borders, and likewise take care for clearness about physical borders. It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various methods to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose other than self-realization: restoring the natural (delighted) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving and so much more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your here (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is fully allowed! A tantra massage is generally great, in some cases tasty. We, therefore, welcome you to completely enjoy getting ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (aimed at enjoyment satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at healing).
Not Treatment
Well since you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the short article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Construct in combination (rest) moments.
Need complimentary.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, don't attempt to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired result. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, of course. Nevertheless, understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination minutes (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to enjoy yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined result.
* With respect to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness (of both).